Talk together about what you would like to express to each other and to your friends through your Renewal of Marriage Vows ceremony. (This discussion will increase the personal value of your ceremony).

Consider whether you want torepeat the same vows you made on your wedding day, or something different. (The celebrant will suggest some alternative vows for you to use if you wish, or assist you to write some.)

Consider whether you want others to take part in the ceremony with you. (Your original attendants, or your family members, or someone entirely different).